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My twins. We lost them today. Mrs. Z was fine, the Dx said it was chromozonal. So We go to the hospital tomorrow to get everything cleaned out and start all over.These thing happen, espically when twins are involved... But it's still is not easy. I concider it a blessing that her body knew enough to get rid of them than to keep them, but what's the odds of having twins again... Slim to none? Thanks for all the well wishes earlier, we are ok, and we will be back in the saddle soon enough...MuzikMike should love that image.
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I can't add much to what others have already said. I'm sure you and your wife are both devastated, but keep trying and know that a lot of people in audioland are pulling for you!
"Music is the medicine of a troubled mind." -- Walter Haddon, 1567
My sincerest condolences.
I am so sorry for your loss. Please heed the sage advice, and God bless both of you.
Douger
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DevillEars
what a damned shame! You were so excited and we were excited with you. Remember to hold your wife close and make her know you know there's no blame involved. Some women have a problem NOT blaming themselves. I imagine she'll cry for no apparent reasons for awhile, don't try to analyze it, just let her know you care for her more than ever.If she seems to shy away from you, understand she's going to be uptight about intamacy for a bit...she'll get over it and then...
Take pictures and send them to me.
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If I had more money I'd soon be broke...but I'd have more LPs!
Words fail me.
As others have said, take the time and opportunity to grieve. They were part of both of you for awhile.Your wife and you will be in our prayers. God bless.
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all the best,
mrh
Mike,how unfortunate these things happen, but the body knows better, and it's probably a blessing in the long run. You will start again, and I wish you and your wife all the best. When the babies do come, they will have an even more profound meaning.
Jeff TOJ
My sister lost three before she finally had her son. Turns out she had a genetic abnormality that interfered with her uptake of folic acid. She started taking megadoses of it and her next pregnancy was successful. She says that when she held her newborn son in her arms the joy she felt far exceeded the sadness she felt when she lost the ones before. Here's hoping that this joy is in your not too distant future.
My wife had three miscarriages, and we have three fine sons. A family friend had 8(!) miscarriages and has a wonderful daughter.
Hold on to each other and look forward. Our most sincere sympathies.
jac - desperaudio
What can be said to comfort this? Nothing adequate.
It was just last week you said that you were going to be a daddy twice. Now this.
I'm really sorry for your ordeal.If you and your wife have been using oral contraceptives ("the pill"), then multiple births will be more common than normal. So if that's what you want to try for, the odds will be better for you than for those who abstain.
Best of happiness to you.
It is so difficult to have such joyous hopes taken away. Take comfort in the hope that you can start over. Best wishes for your future.
it hurts to lose expected children. Time will heal all wounds, even if it doesn't feel like that right now.
The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, but wiser people so full of doubts.
Bertrand Russell
Take your time and grieve over your loss. You are young
and will have plenty of time to try again. Bless you and
your wife.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your wife.
Best regards,
geeeze, what else do I say, Mike?Have a free hug!?
WarmestTimbo in Oz
The Skyptical Mensurer and Audio ScroungerAnd gladly would he learn and gladly teach - Chaucer. ;-)!
'Still not saluting.'
I'm really sorry to hear that. But it sounds like you've got a very positive attitude which is far more than I would. I really wish you guys the best in your parental endeavors, Mike. Hugs to the both of you.
Shit! I have no words that can convey whay I am feeling. Our prayers are with you.
"Man is the only animal that blushes - or needs to" Mark Twain
...... I send you my sincere condolences. It hurts like hell but that is a good thing.Truly sad news. I have tears in my eyes.
Make sure you give Mrs Z lots of long cuddles.
Sox
praying that God will console the both of you and bless you abundantly in the future. Hope all is well with the lady of the house. And you as well.
Must be a hell of an emotional roller-coaster. Glad to hear everything is physically OK. Emotionally, I wish you both the best.
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It's not I'm anti-social,
I'm only anti-work,
Glory Osky, that's why I'm a jerk!
words won't help, you are both in my thoughts.
I'm really sorry to hear about this. There's nothing anyone can say to make it better, but since we've "been there, done that" here (more than once) and I know what you're going through I'll simply offer this: Don't be ashamed to admit that it hurts like hell and if necessary, get help. I'm serious.Take care of yourself. And perhaps more importantly, take good care of your wife.
Ergo grex, ergo sum.
I am so sorry. Give her a hug...from you, and all of us.
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