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In Reply to: Life after divorce ? .... posted by reelsmith. on July 23, 2014 at 16:13:31:
I'm sorry to hear that...or maybe not, depending on your desires. When I got divorced from my ex after 9 years of marriage and several years of dating during college, it was quite amiable. I got my car, my clothes and an interest in the house when she ever sold or refinanced along with child support payments that were fair. Being in my mid-thirties with plenty of money and a good job, I never feared being alone. It was like the women's underground had the word out that I was available before the ink had dried on the separation agreement.
Today, I can't imagine doing all of that again. After 26 years with #2, I believe that I'm stuck with her and happily so.
However, I have a buddy that has a knack for marrying psycho chicks and is an expert on NoMatch.com. His number one piece of advice to that you need to deal with your shit before you think about dating or other relationships. No one wants to hear ex bashing and belly aching. Take some time and learn to enjoy being alone. It's nice to do whatever you want to do. And rekindle old friendships, your friend Jack will be happy to provide comfort. ;)
But seriously, try some new hobbies, get fit. Try Yoga -- 98% of the students are women, typically fit ones.
-Rod
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