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In Reply to: RE: The question posted by Orchardist on September 15, 2016 at 02:21:27
Yes a pattern of irresponsibilty. She is only on meds for her heart condition. She has started smoking again.
Also lack of willingness to talk about what's going on. She didnt trll me any of this I found out here in my nursing rehab center by phoning.
I tried to get her to go to counseling together with me in 2015 but she wouldn't. I am concerned for her well being very much.
ET
"If at first you don't succeed, keep on sucking till you do suck seed" - Curly Howard 1936
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It does sound like she may be suffering from a type of depressive episode.The fact that smoking ( tobacco ?) has returned indicates she is not dealing with stress very well.She has lost a job that may or may not have been related to her presumed decline.Was job performance an issue in the past? If she is in fact depressed now or in the past she may have a case to keep her job and should contact her EAP while she still can.
You did see some issues a year or so ago and that your wife did not want to address them. That said she in all likelihood does not recognize that there is a problem. She does need to find someone that she trusts to talk with especially is you have any concerns grater than her well being meaning her safety.Hard to really tell in this format.
I wish you the best and if you need to ,see someone yourself.This has to be an extraordinarily difficult period for you.
Honestly I fear more for her than me right now. She doesn't discuss her "stuff" and wouldn't do marriage counseling. I don't know what to do other than get people to call and visit. I did that.
She was well regarded there and had good attendence. Maybe her attendance became an issue. I don't know.
ET
"If at first you don't succeed, keep on sucking till you do suck seed" - Curly Howard 1936
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