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In Reply to: RE: Life after divorce ? .... posted by reelsmith. on July 23, 2014 at 16:13:31
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Totally agree on the concept, but not exactly the implementation. Learn from my mistake: don't move out of your "own" house in this circumstance! Regardless if it's financially easier for you to do it. It's going to be reelsmith's house in a month... I suppose the correct answer then would be for him to pay for her to live elsewhere, perhaps easier said than done, for her too.
Good idea, but not going to happen.
We've been living together during the entire process, which was heated during meetings, but things have been calm at home. We don't see each other much as we both work and we leave and get home at different times. We barely speak beyond "have a good day" in the morning and "hi" at night. I work Saturdays and she spends Sundays with her folks. So, it works.
She'll be staying for one month and splitting all costs. I don't wish her any hardships and asking her to leave would make things miserable for her and make me look bad in front of the kids. If I left it would be just as awkward for the kids. While the kids are older (18 and 23), one is still at home and he is comfortable with things as we are more cordial now than before the proceedings.
We had a few very miserable years.
Thanks for caring enough to reply. I appreciate it. I've entered uncharted territory and need to relearn the ropes.
Dean.
reelsmith's axiom: Its going to be used equipment when I sell it, so it may as well be used equipment when I buy it.
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