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In Reply to: RE: Why would a woman who really loves you posted by Mike K on May 03, 2015 at 19:33:42
My experience is that women don't like the competition for the time you are spending on your hobbies...it seems to amplify once kids enter the equation. Then your time is either spent on the wife or the kids or the house but NOT the hobbies. Women like to make sure things are getting done...they get focused on this rather than enjoying life. Everything becomes a project. Men seem not to "grow up" the same way and like to have the hobbies and other distractions of interst.
I see this in numerous relationships and I struggle to keep my hobbies.
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which leads me to ask the usual question: why get married? For men, there's nothing to be gained and everything to be lost.
Interesting point and one I was discussing with friends the other day. I think if you want kids it makes some sense...otherwise not at all. The funny thing is that I only started to have some trouble about this stuff after the birth of my daughter. When we were married without kids it was not really an issue because I already had HUGE speakers and amps when we started dating. I have downsized considerably since those Glory days ;-).
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